Double Standards Amaze me. Especially when people treat you totally different from a friend who is looks drastically different. As much confidence as I have in myself I still notice way more then I should. I’m so tired of being judged because I’m a bigger woman. My friends tell me that I’m ‘not that big’ which is fine with me. It just upsets me when people are openly treating me and my friend (whoever I’m with at the time) totally different because they like to judge a book by its cover.

I’m done ranting. I can honestly say that I now know what some bigger people mean when they say they are treated differently. It didn’t hit me until yesterday while having a conversation with my Bestie over Dinner. She had no clue, and it wasn’t her fault. I hate to say that I would love to walk out the door with a smaller friend and just not be judged…to be respected right then and there, and ever when I’m not there.